4 Tips to Get His Attention
If you’re crushing over the guy in the next cubicle at the job or someone you see at the coffee shop every morning maybe you are wondering how you can get his attention. Many women come on way too strong and this can backfire for several reasons. For one thing, you wouldn’t want to look easy, if you and the crush ever do go out you don’t want it being merely a booty call. Another reason you wouldn’t like to come on too strong is that you might just frighten him. Every guy is different and several like strong women but few will like a pushy, overbearing woman, be ready for taking it slow and be discreet.
Instead of dressing in your skimpiest outfit you might want to try more subtlegestures cues to let him know that you’re interested. As you do want to look outstanding it’s important that you don’t go too over the top with how you dress and the way you need to do your hair and makeup. Again, you wouldn’t want to present him the concept that all you want is a roll in the hay or which you earn a little extra cash like a call girl. You may be sexy and attractive without running around half naked.
Here are a few body gesture tips you can try to let him know you’re interested, and not easy:
1. Whether the two of you are together or perhaps are within the same place simultaneously, eye-to-eye contact could make a big impact. To get his attention ( generally all that is needed to do is take a look at someone for a few seconds and they will ‘feel’ your eyes on them) hold his gaze for several seconds, then coyly look away. Take care you do not stare at him for minutes at a time because if you do you’ll look like a loon and scare him off.
2. If the both of you are talking, slightly lean in when you talk to him. Lightly touch him on the arm or back. Merely a light touch once or twice during the conversation will be sending him an obvious signal that you’re interested. Again, don’t overdo it. This isn’t about pawing the poor guy, it’s about a subtle seduction that any guy who isn’t an entire dork will pick up on.
3. Don’t try too hard. This rule doesn’t just affect the way you dress. Don’t laugh at his jokes if you don’t think they really are funny. Don’t gush over his great hit in last weeks softball game. Needless to say, it’s nice to appear interested and what about a little impressed, but you do not need to react like he just said that he found the cure for cancer. Men can smell phony a mile away and many men will probably be turned off by it.
4. Don’t fall for the cliched idea that all men want is sex. Sure men, and some women, love an excellent sexual encounter but as they get older and mature they become equally interested in someone they can have an intellectual and emotional connection with too, in short they are seeking a similar thing women are : a best friend and lover rolled into one. Don’t just play up the sexual side of things, show him what a fun loving, honest, intelligent woman you are and he’ll be very impressed.
These simple tactics will help you should you be trying to get his attention and can lead to a wonderful relationship.